So everyone is against bullying, and there are loads of people saying that we need to get rid of it. But is that really true? For one thing, it’s impossible, bullying has always has been, and always will be part of human nature. So anyone attempting to remove it totally, is just wasting time and […]
So this post follows on from the previous one about the fact that only 50% of the world likes you at any one time! I was attempting to look at my life as a child, bullied from the moment I entered school at 4.5, right up to when I left after A levels. My mother […]
Lots of us are very driven by what people outside of us think, and so it is important to us that we are liked. Other people are totally aware of their own value, and therefore only worry about what they think about themselves. The ideal is a bit of both, because the internally focussed people […]
So do you share the load with your partner of supporting / challenging and being nice / mean to the kids, or does one of you do more of one than the other? In terms of being a parent, if you are always challenging your kids, and being the tough one, it is a shame […]
When the bullying at school is minor, you can literally balance the scales of support elsewhere, in order for it to automatically redress itself.
So, I’m planning on a pile of stuff about bullying over the next few weeks, as I have been motivated to tackle this subject by my 3.5yr old little boy being bullied at nursery. Not something that I ever expected to be tackling at this age, but then I realise that I was being naive […]