So September is nearly upon us – this is a wonderful time for new year resolutions, as we have started school in September for so many years, that it is almost written in our DNA that it’s time to ‘move up’.
Here is my facebook live giving you tips on how to upgrade your life, and there is a quick summary below for you as well.
One of the important parts of the Law of Attraction that people often forget whilst visualising ferrari’s is to ACT. What’s often just as important is to start ‘acting as if’. So in your new dream life with the amazing relationship or better financial set up or wonderful health, how would you be acting? I’m not saying to start spending money now that you don’t have. But rich people tend to manage and budget their money well (those that keep it anyway). People in happy relationships tend to have a good relationship with themselves. And so on …
Now I often talk about ‘upgrading’ your life for example your knicker drawer. But recently I had a revelation when someone asked me to look at what I was ‘tolerating’ in my life and ‘what was not ok’! Why was this so different? Because I have a tendency to avoid conflict and ignore what I’m scared of.
When I bravely started to make my list (50-200 is recommended) – which is very long having juggled a business, young kids and an illness for so long – I started to feel a big shift.
There are 3 types of things:
1) The simple ones you can start to get going on quickly.
2) The ones that cost time and money that need to be planned and budgeted for.
3) The ones that involve other people – that can feel heavy to organise and sort out.
Once I started looking at (1); which involved an adaptor plug, new dish brush etc, I suddenly found that a huge (3) happened effortlessly and didn’t cost anywhere near as much of (2) as I expected. There is LOADs of positive change happening.
Now originally I stared on this route because I am up for an award (subtle plug!) and realised that I needed to get all my ducks in a row – hence photos, new website, clarity on my strategy & plans etc. It’s been a big journey for me and an even bigger one now that I’m looking more deeply at what I was ignoring.
So please do come and join in!
Like my facebook page and join my free facebook group ‘Create your dream life with the mummywhisperer‘ for tips, photos and ideas all the away through September. There will be a free ‘Upgrade your money story’ course as well.
Oooh and I’d love a vote, pretty please! Just pop ‘MummyWhisperer’ in the box here and I’ll love you forever <3