– Have some big health, fitness and weight loss goals? QUICK – I am just reopening the doors to my ‘Be Healthy, fit & slim for life program’. If you check out this page, there is more information on the program and a look inside. https://mummywhisperer.com/be-healthy-course/
Plus here is a video explaining exactly why you would want to work with me (or not, as the case may be!).
– Have a business that needs a kickstart or boost? – message me – I have a new program about to start, with an amazing offer, that makes the summer holiday lull no problem from a time and financial perspective – but when I open the doors on it, it will be very limited, so make sure you don’t miss out!
– Remember there is my FREE ‘Magic Switch’ course in my facebook group #MUMMYWHISPERER Tips – this will definitely help keep you sane when the kids go feral LOL!
Very big hugs and remember that you deserve to have a wonderful summer holidays AND be happy AND be healthy AND have a successful business!
It’s school summer fair season again! That means I’ve been approached by a LOT of schools in the surrounding area, for either adverts in their brochures or vouchers for their raffles.
Realistically, the vouchers do not really help me with my business. I don’t get a lot of visibility from them and I don’t get a lot of business. However, I do like to support the local community; my kids are at a local school, and I’m very aware of how hard the PTA’s work for both the private and state schools. Sadly at times I do feel a little ‘used’ at times by the schools that approach me (not all, just some), which I suspect makes the PTA’s job even harder.
So I thought I’d write some tips on how to get those much needed adverts or vouchers from local businesses. Most importantly you are looking to create a relationship with the business; where they know that you don’t just want a voucher from them, you actually care that they gain from it.
If you are asking for raffle tickets, have a simple brochure and list all the small businesses that gave you a voucher with a thank you and their contact details. Or create a poster that is in a prominent position at the fair if you can’t afford brochures. The raffle prize will cost the business money to provide the service/product and it takes a lot of return visits from that customer to cover that cost. So this gives them increased visibility.
Suggest they offer you a raffle ticket for something that can be upgraded; this gives them a chance of covering their costs at least. For instance, if I offer a 45min massage, someone might upgrade it to 60mins.
If you are asking for adverts, please consider what value for money you are providing in comparison to other local advertising options. Some schools would like to charge me the same amount to potentially reach 300 parents that I can reach 20,000 people in for a local magazine/newspaper. They also tell me how many children are in the school, rather than how many families, which can often be about 60% of the original number.
If you are asking for adverts give them plenty of time, a deadline, explain what format you need the advert in (e.g. PDF/Jpeg) and what the dimensions of the advert will be. Also, send them a complementary version afterwards, to show them that you definitely did do the advert.
Offer them a package where they can have a stall at your fair, offer a raffle prize and advert in your brochure at a reduced rate.
Do some research into the most popular stalls; my heart breaks sometimes for the small businesses sitting their all lonely with products which are just not suitable for that school.
If their business doesn’t really suit a stall at your fair, they could sponsor one of the PTA stalls. For instance we often have simple games, where the kids win sweets. These could be sponsored by the business, and reduce the PTA’s cost in return for a sign thanking the business for their sponsorship.
Keep a record of the businesses and the contact person that help you each time. Then to save you time you can contact them directly each year.
I recommend that you find out if any of your PTA or parents actually use the business – I’m much more likely to give a voucher to a client, than a stranger who contacts me once a year.
Contact the most local businesses first; they are the most likely to gain from supporting you. Whereas I’m often contacted by schools from a long way away, that probably are too far for me to realistically gain clients. It’s worth walking up the local high street and making a list of the companies, the person to contact and which ones might be interested. Once this list is created it can be used each year.
Support the business on social media – send a thank you tweet and message on their Facebook page. Like their Facebook page and follow them on twitter. Mention them on your private Facebook profile as well. All these things help with a small businesses marketing campaign, and helps to reduce their costs.
During the following year, share one or two of their Facebook posts or like them to show that it’s not just at Christmas and the Summer Fair time that you are interested.
I know this probably sounds like a lot of work, and it might be a little late for this year’s fairs (sorry!). But once you have your list of businesses, it is likely that they will automatically help each year and you’ll only be looking for 1 or 2 extras per annum. You will stand out as so much more loyal and caring than the other schools, that the business will always be willing to help you where it can.
I’d also recommend other ways of building a relationship with the business:
Invite someone in from them for careers days, and send thank you’s on social media for their time.
Offer them the opportunity to put fliers in the school bags – this can be more successful than an advert in the school brochure and lucrative for the school.
Proactively find out what local businesses the parents work in and specifically target them, as they have greater interest in the school.
If you have railings at school, you could offer for them to make a banner and advertise there every now and again (for a fee of course).
If you do other events during the year, potentially offer for these businesses to sponsor some aspect of it.
For your most reliable and loyal business supporters, you could add a thank you page to the school website.
Please remember that these are small businesses. Unless they are very lucky, the owners are probably earning as much or less than they would do if working for someone else, and they are much more stressed. Why on earth in that case do they do it? Well that’s a question I’m not sure of the answer for!
I really hope this helps in that rather desperate rush to compete with other schools/charities for small business support.
Here are my Top Tips for finding things to do in the holidays to keep those kids of yours busy without breaking the bank!
1) The Library
There is a summer challenge every year. This year is the ‘Creepy House Challenge‘ where the kids read 6 books by the end of the summer holidays and they get loads of encouragment from the librarians with stickers and the chance to tell them about each book.
This is a great activity. It’s Free. It takes time going to the library. You can do it when it rains! Plus it’s a gentle way of keeping them going on reading.
Take your own food and drink to keep the cost down and give the kids a purse with their money in it so that they understand there is a limit and can choose what they would like to do, but that it’s not an endless supply.
Don’t try to fill all their time, it’s good for them to get a little bored, or to learn to occupy themselves (although you may need to give them a bit of direction or make it easy for them to think about it).
5) How to keep the house together and yourself from going crazy
Take some time out. Swap with another mum. Ask relatives to give you a day off. Or pop the kids into a day’s camp if you can afford it. You’ll come back revitalised and fun to be with, so it’s a win-win for the whole family!
7) Don’t Do Things You Can’t Afford
Don’t put yourself in debt in order to survive the holidays. Your kids don’t need that. A simple rule of thumb is that if it’s going to take you more than 3 months to pay off (i.e. a season), then you can’t afford it.
They won’t be ruined forever if they don’t get to go to Disney World or an adventure park. Look at the free things available instead like museums or community events.
8) Don’t Feel Guilty About Working
It’s a fact of life, some of us have to work full or part-time during the holidays. I’m particularly aware of this as things are going to be really busy this summer with the preparations for my new Salon and Spa as it opens in October.
With the time that you have, be present with them. Create Memories. Have fun.
What are your top tips? (Feel free to add your blog post if you have written one, I don’t mind people adding links).
Life’s still hard with the recession and we all need some fun and adventure in our lives, so for this month’s Lifestyle feature over on Radio Verulam with the lovely Danny smith on his Drivetime show, I talked about festivals and camping.
I first decided to got to a festival when Little Dimples was 18months (two years ago) and Curly Headed Boy was 5. I’d NEVER been to a festival and felt a bit mortified by it. I decided if we started now with the kids, they might TAKE ME when they go to Glastonbury in 15yrs time!
Since then I’ve actually become a fan of camping too. We started glamping, but due to the cost my practical side chose camping with a touch of glamp last year.
Listen here to me chatting with Danny here:
Music is good for the soul, it feeds our spirit and gives us a much needed lift. One thing you can be sure about is that the quality of the music will be MUCH better than anything you see on Xfactor.
It’s great for kids because they learn to sit and listen to music, and the festivals I go to they tend to get to chill, run around and dance. If you go to a family festival there will be all sorts of lovely things for the kids to do as well. CHB says that a 3day festival is like going on holiday for 10days!
If you are brave enough to go for several days and try camping it is even better. There is something about camping and it’s closeness to nature which is relaxing and healing at the same time. We tried a motorhome at the beginning of this year, but despite being more practical it just didn’t have the same benefits for me.
Tips and Concerns
I know it can be intimidating, so I’ve put together my top tips for you to get you inspired to go!
The biggest reason to go is if you haven’t done it before, then NOW is the time to try it. Be ADVENTUROUS. Make memories to look back on and say ‘I did that’!
1) Start Small and Local
The key is not to go to Glastonbury on your first year (although they do have a family area)! Go for small ones (5000 and under). Look for local one day festivals so that you don’t have to camp.
Plus we had loads of fun at Hoo Bookfest, so I really recommend that for next year.
Plan ahead so that you know what is on BUT also go with the flow as it can be too stressful to keep to a schedule.
Go with friends.
Explain to your kids about safety, and make sure that you have one of those wristbands with your mobile number on it. Or this weekend at Britmumslive I was given a Kattoo which looks brilliant (tattoo for your mobile no).
Bring Ear defenders for the kids and a picnic blanket to sit on.
3) Family Festivals
It really helps your sense of safety if you go to a family festival.
Lollibop – This is a London festival with a big kids TV orientation. I’ve never been, but I’ve heard that it is great. It would probably be a bit too commercial for me.
Camp Bestival – This is in Dorset and looks to me to be incredibly well organised. Again there is a bit of a Cbeebies theme going on. It feels to me like they try to make sure that all the practicalities that a ‘middle class’ family would worry about are covered.
Remember this is all part of the adventure! We went to the Penn Festival (eighties music) last year, which was more of a mudfest. The kids LOVED it. All you need to make sure is that they are covered from head to toe in water proofs. We also had a small pop up tent, that we used near the stage.
Bring lots of layers so that you can take stuff on and off.
What to wear – Leggings or skinny jeans are the easiest, with a pretty dress or long top over them. No heals, instead go for daps/wellies. A flower garland is essential (BE BRAVE!).
No one warns people when they have more than two children that suddenly there will be huge problems with holidays.
A couple of years ago we went to Cyrpus in one of those studio apart-hotels. We met a lovely family with 3 children. They could easily have fitted into the studio, but that was against the rules, so they had to rent two, live in one, and could only afford one week because of the extra cost.
I know, I know, some of you will be all like ‘well they decided to have 3,4 or 5 kids’. Yes, I know, but some people are really brave/good at the whole kids thing. Or they make mistakes. Whatever reason, they need holidays more than the rest of us less brave 1 or 2 children families!
I know that you can rent a villa, but that doesn’t really work for me as there is no entertainment and my kids want other kids to play with.
I remember trying to google for affordable holidays for families and getting totally mind boggled with all the options that didn’t really seem to make it easy for a family.
But I have a solution if you are looking for one ….
A holiday in a luxury mobile home with Siblu in France
Plus you get all the ‘normal’ facilities like kids clubs, pools, beaches (some are right on the beach, for some there is a drive) and entertainment.
The only difference is that you aren’t in an actual hotel or apartment, but spread out a little more with your own little site and caravan.
You can go for an active holiday in Normandy with a short drive like we did, or drive a few hours further south for a hot holiday.
And they don’t charge you ridiculous amounts because you happen to have an extra child, in fact you just pay for the van which can house up to 6 or 8 people. (If you can afford it, go for one with a big terrace, I think it really helps with children).
A holiday for 2 weeks, including the ferry trip would have set us back LESS than Butlins or Center Parcs last year, and although it was cheap it wasn’t tacky and horrid at all; which was my big fear.
I think that they are a fabulous option for families in these recession hit times, and once tried they will realise that there is no reason to go back to the more expensive holidays they used to have.
Disclosure: The lovely Siblu people are sending me off to Britmums this year, which I am extremely grateful for. So they did ask that I write a couple of posts about them in return. Seems only fair, and luckily not difficult to do as we had such a lovely time there.
They’ve all had a little more than ‘quick’ to share though, and I actually think that the information is really useful if you are thinking of going yourself, so I’ve decided to make the most MAHOOSIVE blog review post in the history of mankind.
If you’ve attended, I’d love to hear your opinions too!
By the way, they have an early bird option on at the moment for 2012 and once all the early tickets are sold it goes up to full price.
(All the photos are of my family or things that we did, not of my interviewees)
Sunday Day Ticket
I met the lovely Ruby on twitter and really wanted her perspective as she only came for a day, not only that she got the rainy day. So what did she think? …….
My husband and I decided to take the Kids to there first festival this year and Just so looked like the perfect choice, it’s not too far to travel, not too big and the activities were all aimed at children so it sounded great, we booked day tickets incase it wasn’t how we thought it would be or incase the kids didn’t like it as much as we thought.
My husband and I have been to many festivals before including Glastonbury, Download and Hellfest as well as small festivals in Middlesbrough and Bristol. However this was our first with the children. We have two Boys Leo is 32 months and Eli is 4months.
We thought there wouldn’t really be anything suitable for Eli but we were happily supprised by the baby massage classes by Weleda and Baby Yoga by baby bumpkins both of which were great classes and they didn’t pressure you into buying there products or signing up to there classes.
My favourite memory was the wild rumpus parade, although we were only there for a day it was a great way to round off the whole festival in a really magical style. The music tent was great as young children are often told they “can’t touch” expensive equipment, Leo was really excited about the music and has been loving playing with daddy’s guitars since we got back.
I think the free cloth nappy laundry system is a great idea and I hope there back next year as I’m sure that makes the logistics of camping with cloth nappies easier. We loved the baby change and feeding area and the toilets were great, so toilet training is fine (can’t imagine portaloo’s would go down well when toilet training!!)
The only bad things we found were the lack of seating areas (especially at lunch time when we had to walk all the way back to the car to sit down to eat) and we were also upset that we didn’t get to see the gruffalo, obviously it’s understandable that while the rain was out he couldn’t come out but after looking for him all day we asked the information desk when he was due out we were told “he’s on his way” so we stood and waited for 1hour in the same place as not to miss him but sadly he never turned up 🙁
Our favourite area was the lazy days as there was lots to do and also space for the kids to have a run around!! The music was great and done in a relaxed and informal way which suited the style of the festival perfectly, (the 12 year old boy on saxophone was amazing).
We took with us a couple of drinks and snacks for throughout the day and bought our meals so we didn’t have too much to carry, the food prices weren’t cheap but about what you would expect for a festival, and we made the most of the Pie Minister stall (we love it but don’t have one here in Manchester).
We decided to go to let the kids experience something out of there normal day to day routine and that’s exactly what we got. From the camp fire in the woods and the music stage to the wild rumpus parade, they loved it more than we could imagine, we will definitely be back next year (hopefully with a nice new bell tent).
I would definitely recommend it to anyone with young children and hope we have many more fun years ahead at Just So Festival.
Camping Family with 5 kids (and one teenager left at home)
I also met the lovely Ed on Twitter, but we failed to run into each other, despite the fact that he must have been pretty easy to recognise with his lovely big family (and number 7 on the way). He also happens to be a writer, so check out his blog here, where there will be a lots more pictures.
Hi, I’m Edd a thirty seven year old man with a large family and a slim wallet. I work as a Labourer for the most part but am trying to better myself through writing and living. I have a wonderful wife and six awesome children (from 15 to 2) , each of whom are as precious as the next, as well as a large extended family that lives pretty close to me (for the most part).
This was our first festival and though we do camp we normally the two girls hadn’t been camping before.
The festival was very busy and to keep toilets well stocked and clean throughout the whole weekend was a big ask but I think they did a good job. Having a main toilet area and then portaloos in strategic areas made sense and it only really got very grim in the main toilets come the final morning, which is understandable. I work on building sites and I can tell you the Just So Toilets were very well maintained in comparison. The Showers were a pleasant surprise. There was enough room to turn around in them, they were deep enough to allow kids to be in and showered in turn and overall I thought they were kept as clean as possible too. Obviously the wait was brutal first thing but if you left it and picked your moment it wasn’t more than a ten minute wait. That’s shorter than the time I have to wait at home to be honest.
The Planning was spot on from where I was sitting. There was space to roam, everything had enough distance to make it feel very big and yet you felt you were in a specific area when you entered a new ‘zone’. The details made the experience great from the decorative chairs hanging from tree branches too Fairy dresses floating in the woods. It was lovely. The food, toilets and stage set up was great and the breakfast and play barns meant there was always somewhere to take shelter. They even had ATM’s on site. Top class.
The Organisation itself was clean and crisp. The information tent would charge your phone for you (only for a short period, but enough to get you through on minimal settings), was staffed by lovely, friendly people and having the helpers all wearing top hats meant you could always see a person that could help if needed. Everyone had a wrist band and you were told to write your phone number down on the children’s wrist bands for ease of contact if they became lost. Very good.
As it stands I liked the food court area <best>, but outside of the grub I’d have to say the forest where the Fairy queen lived and the Pirate area by the lake <called High Seas> were my favourites. The lake was beautiful and I love forests so it stands to reason those were the places I’d love. The kids loved the ‘Where the Wild Things are’, ‘The Fairy woods’ and ‘Forty winks’ (all in the same wooded area, my favourite area too).
Honestly I wouldn’t really change any of it. It was charming. I suppose maybe providing more toilets would help to easy the obvious pressure on the festivals organisation? Something like that.
Sadly I missed the musical evening sets as I was guarding the sleeping minis that passed out around seven o clock on the nights we were there. Mama took the older kids to the camp fire singing and evening events. I listened to the music drift over the fields towards me from the party but never managed to get to hear it up close and the daytime activities swallowed me up with the kids. It sounded good from a distance though.
We decided that our journey was too long to bring a lot of food and we agreed to either leap into a supermarket when we had gotten all set up or just eat there and not worry about it. I ended up buying dinner, leaving the breakfast and lunch time stops to be filled with sandwiches or fruit. The food wasn’t any more expensive than I thought it would be, there was a good spread of choice from Mexican and Noodles too pizza, pasta and burgers. All in all I was impressed with the provision and the quality. Very good eating indeed. On a side note the breakfast barn was giving out free porridge and crumble bar things, very good idea indeed! I loved the festival but the residing memory will be one of the friendliness of the camping area. Everyone was relaxed, in family groups, seemed respectful of each other’s space and it was clear that they were all having a great time. This feel good factor that surrounded the campers flooded out into the activity fields and made it a magical weekend.
In closing though I’d say we loved it, would love to be back next year but won’t be as our seventh child with be born in January and so it’ll be too tough for us to attend. I do advise you go though if you like your days free, easy and relaxed. No hassle, no crossed words witnessed all weekend and none of the normal young bucks that perhaps don’t quite know when to stop before they take things too far.
A great family festival, a well delivered event and a beautiful crowd of people.
Couldn’t recommend it enough.
Camping Family with 1 kid (our mates camping 6ft away from us)
Now I must admit that by the end of Sunday I did think that my mates might be telling me that they had enjoyed it but despite loving me would never come back. One week on, this is what they said …
We are a family of three from St. Albans; comprising of a happy at home mum, a fun- loving working dad and a 6 year old adventurous little lady. Just So is the only festival we have been to – twice…. Berkofest is next!
My favourite memory is chilling out in the sunshine at the Panic Circus watching the little lady having fun and skilling up on stilts, unicycles and pedalling furiously!
My man’s favourite points were chatting to Michael Buckley (a writer), camping and exploring the woodland with the little lady and the novelty of drinking (adult) blue slushies and poking out his tongue!
The little lady, when asked replied, “all of it! But especially….” she mentioned: Making Masks in Wild things and the Wild Rumpus Parade, learning circus skills, the experiments with the Physics Busters, riding along with Compass, listening to the music in Footlights –“ I rather love Jon Paul Palombo Mummy – do you?!” and DeliKate and Crepe man were wolfed down!
Grrr to the number of times we rocked up to make something (lanterns, feathered headdresses, musical instruments) at the allotted time only to be confronted with “we’ve run out of materials”…….. faces fell in disappointment and it meant not joining in the fabulous lantern parade.
Also our little lady was very lucky to have a ride with Compass (the Jumblies from last year!) in their fantastical flying machines – however we had to tell about 25 families that we were the last family in the queue – a sign would have been good so we didn’t have to witness others disappointment. I would also have to add that only 16 families each session were lucky enough to embark on this wonderful adventure and that seemed too few. I would have liked to have seen more opportunities for greater numbers to partake in certain areas e.g. trapeze lessons were fully booked in an instant an hour before the event, again great for a chosen few rather than seeing smiles on a decent number of faces.
Music was awesome this year; however, I missed a fabulous band from last year called The Lovely Eggs…… bring back them back please!!!
I would also object to the pricing of a small yet delicious sausage in a hot dog roll by The Farmer’s Wife – £4.50!! Thankfully, the other eateries were much more realistically priced for brilliant quality food.
Some areas were sparsely populated with activities and stalls and more could have been added to draw more crowds – All the World’s a stage was extremely empty and this didn’t seem great for the stallholders there, however, was probably a bonus when we were having a nursery rhyme knees up with an audience of 4!
Loved Footlights, Nowhere Now was a huge hit too – The Fantastical Photobooth of Confusion and Wonderment from which we have a treasured keepsake of the festival and little lady enjoyed Levitation and experimenting with the Physics Busters.
Really great! Adored JonPaul Palombo again but sad that his set was so short, the Robbie Boyd Band and Common Tongues also provided a fabulous energy to bop along to. However……. bring back The Lovely Eggs –( my friend thinks I’m insane for liking this band but now we and many others we chatted to went and downloaded everything they’d ever recorded off Amazon after last year’s Just So performance.)
We cooked tea the first night and brekkie both mornings and then bought lunch and dinner from the following:
Rode Hall Farmer’s Market – snacks of stuffed vine leaves and spinach parcels yummy!
The Farmer’s Wife – delicious yet expensive sausage for the little lady
Deli Kate – yummy paninis and milkshakes. Such a hit, brilliant stuff!!
Pieminster – yummy Heidi pie – however in line with the Festival’s common theme of running out of stuff – it had to be eaten solely with a knife as cutlery was in short supply – the lovely pie people did take a £1 off for the inconvenience though!
Tasty Thai Cuisine – definitely my favourite… well priced and scrummy!!
Ginger’s Comfort Emporium – the little lady loved the vanilla ice cream
Crepes – A yummy nutella and banana one hit the spot, however was eaten with fingers as…. Wait for it…. There was NO cutlery!!! Before you think I’m strange for not asking other stalls for a fork or knife… I did however some were not into sharing due to a meagre supply or didn’t have any themselves!!
Loos – great until the final day when the organisers scrimped on a final pump out and sent the portaloos into a complete state. Cue Jackass style wretching from the little lady and a request for a peg for the nose and a blindfold! The showers were a huge hit with my man – who loves a good shower!
Upon arrival unloading on the drop off zone noted on the programme was fab but then…… we were told we could not use this for packing up….. Cue human conveyor belt of numerous bags, tents, blow up mattresses being passed from the field, over a fence, over the road, over a fence into the car park. One word to yea organisers – KERFUFFLE and please please stick to one rule for all otherwise it gets people like me crazy. After a Just So bod telling me I wasn’t allowed to move my car to the drop off zone on the road sides due to the fragility of Snowdrops some others were waved through and when I asked why – the reason given was they have kids?! Mmmmmm wonder how much adult blue slurpy they had consumed the night before!!!
Just a suggestion please could you make things to do pre-bookable online so then you’ll have a rough idea of how many want to take part in activities and I certainly wouldn’t object to spending a bit to guarantee a slot or to help increase providers to ensure more happy faces.
So I sound pretty mixed about Just So but as the rain ceases, the smell from the portaloos dissipates, the sweat dries from the kerfuffle of packing up and you stand there smiling in a field, muddy, clutching a paper mache mask and some Physics Buster bubbles you know you’re going to return to do it all again next year. The organisers are incredible, admittedly not at conventional organising but at imaginative organising and it offers families a fabulous opportunity to do something brilliantly different.
<We went> because we loved it so much last year and the people we went with obviously!
Yes <we would recommend it> – but not to all, you have to be a kid yourself too to really get the most of it and we’re like Peter Pan in our house!
Yes- because Just So tickets seem to come with Rose tinted glasses so that all of the bits that could be improved and make you sway about going back next year seem to add to its charm!
My Review is: 8/10
I love Just So, I love the ethos behind it and the magic it creates.
I liked the new location, although I think it might need a little rejigging next year with maybe a few bigger props for the bigger location (but don’t change High Seas which was wonderful with the most amazing atmosphere!). It did seem to me that there were a LOT more people as well, but it handled the rain on the sunday well and didn’t get too muddy.
Music was brilliant, especially JonPaul Palombo; my only complaint being that his set should have been longer, but at least I got a hug! Louis Barabbas was one of those bands that works brilliantly for kids because he was totally crazy.
This year the kids really got into the music side of it; Mum and Dad having a drink, kids running around and dancing, and then dragging one or other parent up to look silly. I LOVE this bit and love that it is so safe.
The other reviews show how well it covers many age ranges from baby upwards, which I think is very clever, and also different types of people from extremely different backgrounds. I’m going to add the tip to bring a picnic blanket with you, so that you have somewhere to sit, as there will never be 4000 seats to my top tips for family festivals post, as well as many packs of wet wipes for showers.
I really enjoyed the camping side of it and it has proved to me that it totally works for me as a relaxed type of holiday, but OMG the toilets on the last day were outrageous and don’t empty the ones by the tents at midnight! I also embraced the wet wipe version of a shower as I couldn’t be bothered to queue, however the hairy northern enjoyed them.
I wouldn’t be giving an honest review or helpful feedback if I didn’t say that:
It does NOT work to have activities going on for just a small handful of kids when you have thousands coming. Those activities need to be either bigger with more helpers, or back to back or both.
It does NOT work to have craft opportunities for excited kids wanting to make things for the parades in the evenings and then to run out of materials, I think Just So are going to have to give the craft people material budgets.
In fact lots of the craft activities and unusual oddities should basically run all day I think, which I do understand will increase the prices as this means paying them rather than just giving tickets. The problem is that you drag the family all the way to one location, find it’s all booked up, so walk off to the next to be too late for that one and so on. It was a struggle at times with dissappointed kids.
So the slightly suburban middle class computer nerd side of me struggled with some of the organisation of it, and hated having to disappoint the kids at times. Plus it made it a bit more stressful for us parents.
However, the tree hugging side of me suggests that next year we just avoid anything organised, mill around and catch the spontaneous things that encourage the children’s imagination like the Panic Circus (so much better than the circus at Penn Festival), MopTop and Knickers (fabulous from Mother Hen) and the stone balancing. The music was great and I was REALLY happy with the fact that the kids learnt to just mess around and dance to crazy music.
I know that regular festival goers would say that we were lucky to have loos that worked for the majority of the time and that all the problems that worried me are pretty standard. But Just So is now getting so popular that it is going to get people coming who need structure and organisation even more than me and there are other festivals that from their reviews I can see focus more on making the parents life easier, but are probably too main stream and commercial for me. This is the challenge for Just So for 2013 after the challenge of moving location this year, and as they pulled that off, I’m sure they will pull this off too.
Will I be going back? I really hope they invite us back, (a) because we love it and (b) because I’d love to give them a 10/10 next year.
Curly Headed Boy said he definitely wants to go back because there was so much to do, and his favourite bit was the music. I will finish on a video of Little Dimples dancing to Louis Barabbas!
I’d love more comments from people who’ve been to other festivals or fellow Just So-ers?
Disclosure: I received a family camping ticket for Just So, but all the opinions expressed are my own or those of my interviewees. The picture of Little Dimples as a fairy has a green tutu and wand sent to us by Fairy Glass, the wings were the ones we bought there last year, but we also have a gorgeous pair of wings to match the tutu; just couldn’t get her to wear the matching set all in one go!
Apparently I picked the best one, so I’m sticking with it!
I’m now a veteran as this is my 3rd ever family festival (there was the Mudfest at Pennfestival in between, and yes I am joking about the veteran bit!).
So I thought I’d tell you the key to a successful family festival:
Going with the Flow
With no clue of what is on, and no plan of what to do you’ll keep arriving as things finish and miss what your kids would most love to do.
But you need to leave space for magic and adventure to find you as well, especially when we are talking Just So.
Be too organised, and the kids will be constantly on your case as to what is next. They need to learn to chill and find the unexpected, but having a couple of plans up your sleeve will help to avoid the disaster of wandering aimlessly for a couple of days and not getting immersed in the festival.
So, I’ve been sitting down with Curly Headed Boy and I’ve come up with this plan (which I’ll mention at some point to the Hairy Northerner of course!).
This is just my plan, you might need a cuppa or a glass of wine and a couple of hours to make your own. But I thought you might like some hints, especially if you are a first timer.
Here’s a quick summary of the different areas from what I can grasp from the online programme (expect changes, things to not be in the programme and surprises!):
Social: Food is looking good this year, I’m really impressed (basically everything I wanted last year is there this year!). So I’m just planning on taking Tea, Friday night food, breakfast, juice, squash, snacks, fruit and maybe a spare meal for sunday just incase. Just So is packed with things to do, so I don’t really want to have to go back to the tent and cook. Other festivals don’t start until lunch time, so there is more time.
Jitterbug: Dancing and discos (I fancy the belly dancing and Curly Headed Boy wants to learn the Chitterbug or Jive)
Footlights: Some of the bands, but it looks like there is lots more music this year and I know one of my favourite bands is elsewhere.
Lazy Days: Don’t be fooled by the ‘lazy’, I reckon it’s going to be pretty energetic with the sports day and circus there. I missed Capoeria last year, so really want to do it this year: (Friday 4-5pm Saturday & Sunday 10-11am & 4-5pm)
Nowhere Now: These look like fun things to pop in and experiment with, I remember Physics busters from last year and they were fab.
Peekaboo: Baby fun and some pampering from Weleda
40 winks: Looks like a fab chill out place with story telling and dens
Wild Things: Was popular with Curly Headed Boy last year and looks like there is even more fun to be had with bush crafting, den making and don’t underestimate making clay faces
All the worlds a stage: Don’t miss out on getting the kids to do their own imaginative face painting, lots for the more dramatic in the family here
Away with the fairies: a must, they’ve added loads to it this year, but be prepared for the queen to be popular to see (Friday 4-6pm and Saturday & Sunday 10am-12noon and 2pm-4pm)
Elsewhere: Looks like the fun eclectic stuff from Just So that you wander into and then slip away into a magical and slightly weird universe ;o)
High Seas: Pirate training was so brilliant last year and they’ve added loads more (Friday 4.30pm & 5.30pm or Saturday & Sunday 9am, 10am, 11am, 2pm & 4pm), I think that the fox pockets and stone balancing are appealing to me too, no idea why!
Tribes and Parades:
We are part of the fish tribe, which will I’m sure mean more on the festival, but we are definitely going to make the willow lanterns this year and get involved in the parades. We missed out last year and only watched it and the kids were gutted.
Get all settled, let the kids play outside the tent, wander around getting our bearings (it’s changed location this year)
MUST DO: Jon Paul Palombo 6.30 on ‘all the worlds a stage’ (check out my a fab video of him here: gorgeous and brilliant!)
yoB: looks like they will really suit our friends (going on the music they enjoyed last year – OMG!): Fri 5.30-6.30
Really fancy the fables and music with Fox pockets at the High seas Saturday 11.30am & 4.30pm
Robbie Boyd Band: Look like they could be brilliant Sat 7.30
The Lantern parade is Saturday at 9 – meet in Lazy Days from 8.30 for lantern lighting.
Fiona Bevan: Sounds lovely, I think she could be the shining star of the show: Sunday 6.30
Eighties Disco – Yay!!!
The wild rumpus parade is at 7.30. Again, meet at Lazy Days.
Check out my tips on:
What to wear to a festival, and remember at Just So anything goes as long as it’s fun. Sadly Wellies are going to be a must this year, but it’s looking pretty warm too, so don’t bring your winter clothes!
Forgot to say take a picnic blanket as there probably wont be anywhere to sit (thank fully we always have one with us).
Plus extra wet wipes incase you don’t fancy queueing for showers (it’s only 3 days, you’ll survive I promise!)
Set your kids expectations as to how much they might be able to spend per day or the number or icecream vans; that will reduce the number of arguments when you get there and they see a few stalls full of lovely stuff.
Disclosure: Last year I went to the festival on my own steam, but this year I begged them to give me a family camping ticket and they very kindly agreed. This doesn’t affect my opinion of the festival, I would have loved it anyway!
I have fond memories of staying in a caravan in the South of France at about 5yrs old and it being a crazy fun holiday, so we decided to take a chance and accepted the offer to go to Normandy to try out Domaine De Litteau, which is one of the Siblu mobile home holiday sites.
Last year we went on our first ever family summer holiday and were shocked at the prices, as I steadfastly refused to pay the ridiculous sums of money being requested.
So I was really interested as a more affordable holiday option for families; especially those with young children who want inter-connecting rooms or who have more than 2 children and don’t want their holiday prices doubled.
Verdict – 7.5/10
Value for money: Brilliant. These holidays are especially good for families who want their children near them when they are sleeping or have more than 2 kids. You would normally get penalised for interconnecting rooms or having more than 4 of you, but that’s not the case at Siblu.
Beaches: INCREDIBLE. I’ve never seen such amazing, empty, long, sandy beaches in my life. Nice and shallow for the kids to play/paddle in as well. Warm enough when the water comes back in to swim in, just. Apparently it doesn’t get too full when the french go on holiday in a few days time either. BUT the beaches are 30 mins away, which was tricky with our kids.
The best spot is if you head to Omaha Beach, just to the right of the big silver pointy statue/memorial, near the food shack and life guard station.
Veuille Sure Mer gets really cramped when the tide comes in, so only good when it goes back out again.
We went to Arramanche one day, but it’s much more commercial, so headed out to Courseilles Sur Mer, which is less tidy, but has fun sand dunes and lots of people sailing/wind surfing and a great food shack.
Swimming Pool: Brilliant and hardly ever too packed as it’s not really somewhere that people stay all day. It’s covered (the sides are removed when its hot), so usable whatever the weather and has a toddler area. The BEST BIT was the water slide which did NOT go into the pool (which terrifies me from a safety perspective). Instead, the slide is separate from the pool and I think therefore much safer.
Weather: perfect for young kids or active kids or people who like to go out and investigate without broiling i.e. it’s not massively hot and can be unreliable. In fact I met several families in the second week who had been further south at another park and felt a huge sense of relief to come to a cooler site.
Journey: It’s only 40 minutes from Caen, so great for us with Little Dimples who pukes on long car journeys.
Food: We ate at the bar a couple of times and it was really good value for money (7€ for a meal), good food, just could have done with salad or more green vegetables for me. They were rubbish at advertising what was available though.
Shop: The shop is small, but good for emergencies. There is a supermarket near by.
Forest: We went for a couple of walks in the forest which was lovely (and cool) and they also do organised nature trails.
Meeting other people: I’ve discovered that I NEED chats with people, and I pretty much don’t care who with (although my best chat was with a young teenager about writing and what would the world be like if the Germans had won WW2). It’s easy in a hotel when you all go down for breakfast at the same time, and sit around the same pool. But it’s more tricky at Domaine De Litteau as all the facilities are at the entrance and the caravans spread out away from it up a hill. If like me you need people, then you’ll need to make an effort to go to the Pirate evenings and meet other parents. It will just take a bit longer.
Which mobile home: I would definitely recommend you go for one with a veranda as the weather in Normandy is unreliable (So an elegance or excellence van). I don’t think that air conditioning is really important as it cooled down by 11pm, so if money is tight don’t worry about that. If you would like to sit outside, or have napping toddlers or young kids who might want to play games, I would phone and request if possible a van with a good sized plot.
Noise: You can spookily hear people in the next van when the kids are running around and french babies seem to cry a lot. But it all settles down pretty early by 11pm and didn’t stop my kids from sleeping at all. We hardly heard anything in the second week. Domaine De Litteau is a very quiet site at the moment, I hope they maintain this as they grow and don’t add in the day long music I’ve heard is at the pool at one of the other sites.
Staff: The kids club staff were great, maybe not as warm as the Cypriots from last year, but then they seemed to be only warm with kids and grumpy with the rest of the world (sorry for the generalisation!). Some staff seemed a bit dippy or relaxed, but Carol who was in charge of the cleaning was brilliant and a great help, and the life guards seemed very aware (there was a dodgy review on trip advisor about them from last year).
Kids Entertainment: Curly Headed Boy discovered the kids club a few days in for the Talent show and was hooked! He didn’t seem to mind that in the first week he was the only english boy at all (lots in second week). There are often Pirate shows in the evenings, less professional that the other sites, but still really fun, and a special Talent show evening once a week.
Growth in future: Over the next few years they will be adding more caravans up to 500 (It’s 250 now), increasing the size of the pool, adding a little supermarket, changing the entrance to a safer location, adding 2 more kids clubs, and a restaurant. Lots of those things will be great, and a little more organisation might be nice. But at the same time I hope they hold onto the laid back feel that they have now. I talked to someone who has owned a van for years, and they were really keen on the changes. It’s brilliantly maintained, and I’m sure that they will keep it beautifully.
In general: It’s a very relaxed, slightly disorganised, but charming site, perfect if you don’t want to drive too far, like visiting interesting sites, and don’t want to be too hot.
Curly Headed Boy’s Review
He didn’t want to be missed out, so he’s made you this little video to show you what it all looked like!
Sadly our trip was marred by Little Dimples being sick for the majority of it. I was exhausted before we even got there, and then hurt my back really badly. There was a short remission after a trip to the doctor half way through and then she seemed to get sick again and the big hairy northern one hurt his back too.
It meant that I was stuck to the caravan for lots of the trip and unfortunately although we had one with a veranda we had one of the few that had very little out door space. I should have asked for us to be moved, but I was too tired and didn’t think of it.
I wasn’t comfortable sitting outside the van because the space was so squashed, so I got a bit bored and stir-crazy. To be fair, the majority of the pitches I looked at had loads of outdoor space, we were just unlucky.
Curly Headed Boy LOVED kids club and the pool, but it did cause a logistical nightmare though, trying to fit in visits to other places, beach trips and Little Dimples’ naps. Next year it would be much easier.
Kids LOVE caravans, so it’s pretty much an immediate winner for them; although being ill Little Dimples did ask to go home regularly *sad face* (and is now asking to go back; typical!).
The 3/4 days that we did get to the beach I loved. Kids just seem to play so naturally on a beach and I relax loads more.
I also went for aqua-aerobics a couple of times just to get some time to myself and discovered a new found respect for this much scoffed at exercise.
There was tonnes more to get out and see like the Bayeaux Tapestry, but sadly we didn’t make it. We tried to see the english cemetery at Bayeaux, but it’s very different from the American one, with no parking nearby (you park at the museum that we had already driven past). It was about to p*ss it down and the kids were grumpy, so I compromised with just looking as we drove past.
Extras to Buy
Linen pack: let them provide the bedding, rather than fill your car to the brim!
Towel pack: You’ll get towels for the pool and shower.
Verandah: if you can afford it, very worthwhile.
Air conditioning: Probably not necessary, but maybe if you really hate any possibility of being hot.
What To Bring
Two fleeces each: one can get sandy that way! I brought just one and regretted it.
Tracksuit bottoms: great for after the beach when it’s chilly.
Pair of shorts: great for going to the beach or pool.
Two swimming costumes: so you don’t have to wear a wet one.
Proper PJ’s: It gets cool at night.
Jeans for cooler days and trips out.
Evening: casual, jeans, nothing very dressy, no heals.
Crocs: My peep toe crocs that were given to me with my ‘Inspire’ Britmums award were AMAZING!!! I hated crocs before, but they are fab and the normal ones are great for the kids on the beach.
Food: You could go without. But it’ll save you shopping time if you bring a few essentials: Tomatoe Ketchup, Washing Up Liquid, Washing powder, Bleach for loos, Loo Roll, Soap, Pesto, Pasta, Tea, sugar, and anything your kids insist on having.
Wind break and beach tent: Really useful, especially with Little Dimples needing a mid-afternoon nap. We also brought the Radio Flyer wagon for the beach and walking to and from the caravan.
Toys: iPads for journeys and incase the kids get sick, colouring stuff and pens (we made loo roll people one afternoon), Bananagrams, Duplo, Snap. Buy Boules and sand castle stuff at the supermarket there (no shops on the beach). There are plenty of plug sockets if you are geeks too and need to bring gadgets.
These are not comprehensive, but I was wondering how the prices match up. I did some research between Siblu and Key Camp etc beforehand and apparently they are very similar. So I checked what 2 adults, 3 children aged 2,6 and 13 would cost at a couple of different locations over 7 nights from Sat Aug 11th 2012.
Siblu – Domaine De Litteau – £616 + Ferry (with Cabin) £610 = Total £1216 (Remember to add petrol driving to Portsmouth and 60mins from Caen, and you could do a cheaper ferry trip)
Center Parcs – Elveden Forest – £1858 (monday-monday)
Butlins – Bognor Regis – Self catering apartment – £1658
Would I Go Again?
I would definitely do a caravan holiday again.
I definitely loved the peace and quiet and space of Normandy; I’m friendly, but not that friendly and don’t really want your towel next to mine, sorry! I’d love to see more of the sites there as well, as they seemed to have real significance to life.
I was worried about Siblu being ‘cheap’, but there’s nothing tacky, nasty, dirty, or horrid there, which I was worried about. It’s clean, pretty organised and beautifully maintained.
But I would like a beach nearer and a bit more sun.
I gave it 7.5/10 because I took off a point for the beach being so far away, a point for the lack of grass around my van, and half a point for slight disorganisation; it could definitely be an 8.5/10.
I’d also like them to add the option to pay extra to not have to clean the caravan at the end. I know they don’t expect a full clean, and I wasn’t planning on leaving it like a mess, but it would take a bit of stress out of leaving. Oh and rent one of the vans out to someone offering massage and reflexology next year please!
So I reckon I would compromise and go to one of the other further southern locations for a week, where my friends kids spent the whole time in the water park, or where you could cycle to the beach. Then I would come up to Normandy and Domaine De Litteau for the last week, more of a chill, swimming, kids clubs and visits to interesting places.
If you would love a holiday, would really like to go to France, don’t want it terribly hot, would like amazing beaches, kids clubs and great places to visit then I can highly recommend Domaine De litteau. For more heat and more facilities go for a bigger Siblu site further south.
If you have young kids or can flex on dates, then avoid July-August, maybe even go in June for the D Day landings. The prices drop are more than 50% off and you pretty much get the same holiday, maybe with more jeans, less shorts and even more chilling.
Disclosure: I was given a return ferry trip by Brittany Ferries and week at the Domaine De Litteau site from Siblu holidays for the family. We added an extra week ourselves. This didn’t affect my review and my opinions are my own.
Travelling with kids is generally considered a nightmare. The question is, which is less of a night mare; Ferries or Aeroplanes?
I was really nervous of trying a Ferry out considering the disaster of the Costa Concordia and that last time that I went on a school trip and puked the whole way.
I’ve had my share of aeroplane disasters though with an engine blowing up, wheel falling off, dropping a couple of hundred feet, and trying to get off a dangerous plane and past the men with guns.
It’s not that which really stresses me though. It’s memories of being a teenager with two disabled parents who steadfastly refused help, but took a LONG TIME to get through the airport, so I was constantly panicking that we wouldn’t make it to the plane. (No one told me that once you are booked in they can’t leave without you!).
I basically freak from the moment we set off to the airport and don’t settle until we are on the plane.
Now that I have kids I freak all the way through the plane journey until we land as well.
That’s a lot of freaking!
So the ferry seemed like a really good idea. But there was hardly any information about it for a control freak like me and I had no idea how it would work.
It’s really easy though: just a pile of different queues. You arrive and queue in the right place for your trip. You can even get out and go to the main building, but I don’t recommend it as several people were caught out as the queues moved. Then you get put in a queue for your car shape and size. Then you started to queue up to go on the boat, where you park in a queue.
Remember the level and letter of where you are though!!!!!!!
We had a bag ready to take with us, and off you go up to your cabin and the ferry. Wander around for a few hours. Then leave your cabin half an hour before the end and head back to the right staircase for your car. Pop in your car as soon as the automatic door opens, and depending on where your car is, you’re off!
Pro’s to Plane:
Quicker (the ferry was 6hrs).
Heathrow/Luton/Gatwick are nearer to us.
Can go further away than just France, Spain or Holland.
You don’t get scared shitless by having to walk around the outside of the plane with your two kids!
I have puked on a plane, but less often than on a Ferry.
Quicker to go to nearby places.
Pro’s to Ferry:
No need to park the car.
No limit (apart from size of car) on how much stuff you could take: So we had wind break, Boogie board and Radio Flyer!
Less faffing around at the airport.
No waiting for suitcases afterwards.
Things to do on board: Cinema, Soft play, Magician, Dinosaur show.
Choice of food (3 different places)
More space: you can even have a cabin with bunk beds that come down from the roof, which was fab.
Kind of the same for each:
Price: You can probably find cheaper options of both.
Customs was quick for us, but slow for one of our friends.
Both journeys can take up pretty much a whole day.
On the way out I would have said that I’ve come away a lot keener on ferry trips and didn’t puke once (I had some homeopathic pills).
From talking to other people, it’s better to go on the slow ferry than the fast one if you are prone to puking!
HOWEVER, on the way back it wasn’t rough but it was ‘choppy’ apparently. Well, whichever the way the ‘chop’ was going I was bed ridden for the whole trip and the big hairy northern one tried to brave it out, but because he’d walked around for longer, ended up feeling sick for hours after as well. You DEFINITELY need a cabin when travelling with kids.
For the sea sickness I tried homeopathic pills, ginger biscuits and in the past have used those pressure bracelet things. Basically the only thing that helped was keeping my head low and then having some bitter lemon when we left (I had some in my bag, because the bubbles and sugar seem to help me). When we got home I had a pack of crisps; I might like healthy eating, but crisps work a treat for me when I feel sick!